Have you ever just sat back in life and wondered where everything went wrong? What things would have been like if you would have approached certain situations differently? I’m going to admit it now, I’m guilty as hell! I do it far too often. Recent events finally lead up to the day I thought would never come. So what happened you may wonder.. On July 1, 2019 my divorce was final. After months of disagreeing and back and forth it was finally over and I thought that day would never come.
Divorce was never something I pondered until the end of last year. I mean I admit I would get mad at my husband but never enough to go through with a divorce. That was until I started to not even recognize who I was anymore. Somewhere in the eleven years we were together I lost myself. I wasn’t the same outgoing, bubbly, beautiful person my friends and family knew me to be. In fact, I almost never got to see my friends and family anymore. My world revolved around him and his world revolved around video games.
They say you have to understand a persons love language if you really want to make things work. After a recent quiz I learned my love language is Physical Touch. For whatever reason my ex and I just didn’t understand how to properly love each other to where things would work.
We sought marriage counseling and even attended several marriage conferences with hopes to save our marriage. I have nothing bad to say about either situation, if you need the help definitely try it! The things we learned we took home ready to apply. They would be applied for all of about two weeks and after that routine kicked in and things were right back to where we started.
So why am I addressing this here on my blog? Most of you have followed me for sometime now, several for the seven years I’ve been blogging, and have seen me mention my husband several times throughout this course. I made a recent post on Instagram about the divorce but didn’t go into detail and I was blown away at the support from so many people, I felt the need to explain more to you guys. After all, you are all part of my life now too.. right?!
I am happy to announce that there is a special someone in my life and when the time is right you will all get to meet him. He’s been working behind the scenes supporting me, encouraging me, and helping any way he can. I know that once I am ready to introduce him to you I have no doubt you all will love him just as much as me but for now I’m enjoying the extra support!